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我完全可以體會生氣到發抖的時候。
只是～～我沒有像小柚這麼的厲害～～
每次氣到發抖的時候，聖靈早就被我的怒氣給淹沒了。
希望下次我也可以像小柚一樣，讓聖靈來幫助我，不只是情緒的控制，還有像金恩博士般智慧的應對哪！
謝謝您的分享，讓我收穫很多！
由 Agnes 於 2008年5月17日 下午 10:58 張貼在 Walking On The Water ! (WOW~)
2008年5月17日 星期六
[和平教會 蔡茂堂牧師專欄] 以小人之心度君子之腹
「請問您前輩，」我小心翼翼的提出我內心的狐疑，「為什麼要晚上十點鐘，那麼晚才陪讀呢？」
「那是因為我目前在士林地區開業，我晚上看病人，到九點半左右才結束當天的門診，之後我須要沖個澡，所以大約十點左右，我才能開始複習醫學教科書」。對方的聲音透露出些許的無奈感。
「嗯！前輩的工作好辛苦喔！」我趕忙給他一點同理心的回應。
「請問為何每週才陪讀兩天呢？」我繼續抽絲剝繭的探索下去…
「這有兩個考量，其一是我自己也知道，當Intern的值班是非常辛苦的，如果我要求每週超過兩天的話，我擔心根本會找不到，有台大醫科七年級的實習醫師，可以前來為我複習醫科的教科書。另外一點，我整個禮拜，每天全天看診，沒有休假日，我自己能夠拿來唸醫科教科書的時間相當有限，如果老師唸太快，恐怕我自己也吸收不了。」看來這位前輩考慮還蠻週全的。
「請問您，為何願意付出那麼高的家教費用呢？」我再探索，為何他出手這麼大方。
「因為這並不是一般的家教嘛！」對方語氣有點兒不好意思 「其實我也不知道，該付多少才合理，我只是嘗試先提出一個價碼，看是否有台大醫科的實習醫師，願意抽空來幫我複習，如果我提出的價碼不合理，請您提出您的意見，大家好商量……」
「喔！前輩對不起，我不是這個意思啦！」我連忙澄清我的意圖 「我只是好奇，想多瞭解這張小紅紙上面，所刊登內容的意思。因為，這張小紅紙在我們班上同學之間，成為一個還算蠻熱門的話題耶！」我向站在旁邊的老翁眨一眨眼睛。「因為您提出的待遇太高了，因此，反而引起我們班上同學許多的想像與討論。」
「喔！是這樣子嗎？你們到底想到些什麼呢？」這下子反倒是引起對方，對我們班同學討論內容的好奇心了。
「喔！沒什麼啦！我們班上同學是在猜，這是怎樣的家教，怎麼有這麼高的待遇，而且每週才上課兩天。」我實在不敢將我們班同學之間，討論與猜測的話題內容，老實告訴這位前輩呢！還好對方並沒有窮追不捨，打破沙鍋問到底……
「我再請問您，為何要用轎車接送呢？」既然已經開始詢問了，就乾脆一股腦兒把心中所有的問題都問個清楚吧！
「喔！那是因為我的住家在比較偏僻的地段，沒有很方便的公車可以到達。為了不讓老師再三轉換公車，以及晚上走太長的夜路，所以請我太太開家裡的轎車，去接老師來上課，如此老師不必發太多時間在交通上面。」我聽到他的解釋，更覺得這位前輩真是個很體貼別人，很會替別人考慮的人。
「你真是考慮的十分週到。」我誠心的發出對他的讚歎。
「這沒什麼啦！」對方有點而靦腆……「這是我們做得到的呀！」
「請問您前輩，」就剩下兩個問題了…「為何又要供應宵夜呢？」
「那是因為我們晚上十點才開始上課，上完課可能都過半夜了。老師肚子可能會餓啊！而且我晚上看病人，晚餐也常常隨便抓點東西裹腹，我也須要吃宵夜。」
「對不起，最後一個問題，為何又提到必要時可以過夜呢？」我鼓起勇氣，向他提出我最後的一個問題。
對方在電話中笑了起來！ 「喔！那是考慮如果上課太晚了，老師累了，可以先在我家客房，休息睡覺。隔天清晨，我太太再開車，送老師回台大醫院上班。」
一聽到這位前輩的答案，我的臉不禁紅了起來。我覺得我們真的是，以小人之心度君子之腹了。
請教各為看官，如果換作是你的話，你是會如何解讀這張小紅紙上面內容的可能意義呢？
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由 草戊尚土 於 5/17/2008 08:19:00 下午 張貼在 和平教會 蔡茂堂牧師專欄
[草戊尚土靈修俱樂部] 在 W5 2008-05-16 (賽18:1-20:6) 經文: 以賽亞書 20:2 那時，耶和華曉... 上的新意見。
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Dear All, Peng An,
Predestination was a theological theme of Calvinism. From the perspective of the sovereignty of God, I could embrace predestination without any difficulty. But from human perspectives, then I would struggle very much with such predestination as to negate the human freedom of will.
So from human perspective, I would tend more toward interpreting predestination to be based upon God's foreknowledge of human freedom of will choices. So I was kind of trying very hard to preserve the integrity of human freedom of will, as for me, this was the basis of God's justice in the Final judgement of all human beings.
由 草戊尚土 於 2008年5月17日 下午 8:15 張貼在 草戊尚土靈修俱樂部
Dear All, Peng An,
Predestination was a theological theme of Calvinism. From the perspective of the sovereignty of God, I could embrace predestination without any difficulty. But from human perspectives, then I would struggle very much with such predestination as to negate the human freedom of will.
So from human perspective, I would tend more toward interpreting predestination to be based upon God's foreknowledge of human freedom of will choices. So I was kind of trying very hard to preserve the integrity of human freedom of will, as for me, this was the basis of God's justice in the Final judgement of all human beings.
由 草戊尚土 於 2008年5月17日 下午 8:15 張貼在 草戊尚土靈修俱樂部
[草戊尚土靈修俱樂部] 在 三年讀經默想與題目 (草戊尚土) 080515 上的新意見。
草戊尚土 已針對您的文章「三年讀經默想與題目 (草戊尚土) 080515」留下新意見：
Dear YuZe, Peng An,
The saddest thing was the death of the heart. 哀莫大於心死
We would need hope to keep us alive when we werer crashed by frustrations and failures.
Dear JBC & Mou, Peng An,
I would call this phenomena as Sumo theology. During Sumo game you must embrace the other before you could struggle with or against the other. Jacob's experience at Penuel as well as Christ's experience at Gethsemane were two examples of such Sumo theology.
由 草戊尚土 於 2008年5月17日 下午 8:10 張貼在 草戊尚土靈修俱樂部
Dear YuZe, Peng An,
The saddest thing was the death of the heart. 哀莫大於心死
We would need hope to keep us alive when we werer crashed by frustrations and failures.
Dear JBC & Mou, Peng An,
I would call this phenomena as Sumo theology. During Sumo game you must embrace the other before you could struggle with or against the other. Jacob's experience at Penuel as well as Christ's experience at Gethsemane were two examples of such Sumo theology.
由 草戊尚土 於 2008年5月17日 下午 8:10 張貼在 草戊尚土靈修俱樂部
[草戊尚土靈修俱樂部] 在 三年讀經默想與題目 (草戊尚土) 080514 上的新意見。
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Dear YuZe, Peng An,
Yeah, it seemed that the area of the designated lands seemed not to correspond to the numbers of the tribes strictly.
Dear JBC, Peng An,
It seemed to me that original division of the lands might not be done in a very detailed and fair way, so that was a second stage revision or readjustment process...
Dear Mou, Peng An,
While I was the chairperson of HoPing Collegian Fellowship, my successors could not come out by democratic voting, so we did it by casting the lots. Just as the apostles, while trying to figure out who should be chosen to replace the vacation left by Judas, they first of all spelled out conditions, then they used a very democratic direct voting process to choose two candidates. Then they resorted to casting of lots for final decision making. it was a very interesting process..
由 草戊尚土 於 2008年5月17日 下午 8:04 張貼在 草戊尚土靈修俱樂部
Dear YuZe, Peng An,
Yeah, it seemed that the area of the designated lands seemed not to correspond to the numbers of the tribes strictly.
Dear JBC, Peng An,
It seemed to me that original division of the lands might not be done in a very detailed and fair way, so that was a second stage revision or readjustment process...
Dear Mou, Peng An,
While I was the chairperson of HoPing Collegian Fellowship, my successors could not come out by democratic voting, so we did it by casting the lots. Just as the apostles, while trying to figure out who should be chosen to replace the vacation left by Judas, they first of all spelled out conditions, then they used a very democratic direct voting process to choose two candidates. Then they resorted to casting of lots for final decision making. it was a very interesting process..
由 草戊尚土 於 2008年5月17日 下午 8:04 張貼在 草戊尚土靈修俱樂部
[草戊尚土靈修俱樂部] 在 三年讀經默想與題目 (草戊尚土) 080513 上的新意見。
草戊尚土 已針對您的文章「三年讀經默想與題目 (草戊尚土) 080513」留下新意見：
Dear Little Star, Peng An,
Thanks for your sharing. Abortion was a very complicated ethical dilemma. For those who stood againt abortion, they must be willing to help the difficult pregnancy process, as well as the delivery cost and even to adopt the baby after her unwelcom birth. Without such willingness, the anti-abortion stance was more Pharisaical than humanitarian to me.
Dear JBC, Peng An,
Jesus love to use lots of parables and symbolism, so trying to understand Jesus correctly would need lot of creativity and imagination.
Dear Pomelo, Peng An,
Yeah, when I prepared a sermon, I read lots of materials, then I asked God to send Holy Spirit to help me organize my sermon. Then after I finished my outline, and submitted to our church office to be printed on our church bulletin, I began to put all those ideas on the ppt files, then more thoughts would come to my mind. After finishing the ppt file, when I stood there sharing my sermon with our congregants, there often would come to my mouth some words or ideas not present in my sermon outline. I could only say that Holy Spirit did guide me and inspire me for those words...
Dear Mou, Peng An,
Thank you very much for your sharing. After we became a Christian, and looking back, then we would see the Hands of our Lord to arrange for and to provide for many opportunities for us to experience Him, and also to grant us this special opportunity to decide whether we would trust Him and aske Him to be our savior and the Lord of our life.
Dear Pomelo, Peng An,
Standing behind me could have many different meanings and interpretations. One is Peter became the stumbling block instead of the stepping stone for others to follow Jesus, another is Peter forgot to follow Jesus Christ, the third might be Peter trying to play the role of Satan by deterring Jesus' road to cross.
由 草戊尚土 於 2008年5月17日 下午 7:55 張貼在 草戊尚土靈修俱樂部
Dear Little Star, Peng An,
Thanks for your sharing. Abortion was a very complicated ethical dilemma. For those who stood againt abortion, they must be willing to help the difficult pregnancy process, as well as the delivery cost and even to adopt the baby after her unwelcom birth. Without such willingness, the anti-abortion stance was more Pharisaical than humanitarian to me.
Dear JBC, Peng An,
Jesus love to use lots of parables and symbolism, so trying to understand Jesus correctly would need lot of creativity and imagination.
Dear Pomelo, Peng An,
Yeah, when I prepared a sermon, I read lots of materials, then I asked God to send Holy Spirit to help me organize my sermon. Then after I finished my outline, and submitted to our church office to be printed on our church bulletin, I began to put all those ideas on the ppt files, then more thoughts would come to my mind. After finishing the ppt file, when I stood there sharing my sermon with our congregants, there often would come to my mouth some words or ideas not present in my sermon outline. I could only say that Holy Spirit did guide me and inspire me for those words...
Dear Mou, Peng An,
Thank you very much for your sharing. After we became a Christian, and looking back, then we would see the Hands of our Lord to arrange for and to provide for many opportunities for us to experience Him, and also to grant us this special opportunity to decide whether we would trust Him and aske Him to be our savior and the Lord of our life.
Dear Pomelo, Peng An,
Standing behind me could have many different meanings and interpretations. One is Peter became the stumbling block instead of the stepping stone for others to follow Jesus, another is Peter forgot to follow Jesus Christ, the third might be Peter trying to play the role of Satan by deterring Jesus' road to cross.
由 草戊尚土 於 2008年5月17日 下午 7:55 張貼在 草戊尚土靈修俱樂部
[草戊尚土靈修俱樂部] 在 三年讀經默想與題目 (草戊尚土) 080512 上的新意見。
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Dear JBC, Peng An,
The communication in the marriage was an area worthy of our further more detailed study and investigagion.
Dear Mou, Peng An,
I am not so sure what is Sarai's response to Yahweh's promise after Yahweh challenged her disbelieving laughs. Personally I would tend more toward YuZe's speculation and interpretation of Abram's and Sarai's behaviors...
由 草戊尚土 於 2008年5月17日 下午 7:32 張貼在 草戊尚土靈修俱樂部
Dear JBC, Peng An,
The communication in the marriage was an area worthy of our further more detailed study and investigagion.
Dear Mou, Peng An,
I am not so sure what is Sarai's response to Yahweh's promise after Yahweh challenged her disbelieving laughs. Personally I would tend more toward YuZe's speculation and interpretation of Abram's and Sarai's behaviors...
由 草戊尚土 於 2008年5月17日 下午 7:32 張貼在 草戊尚土靈修俱樂部
[和平教會 晶晶目甦] 在 每日靈修分享080516 上的新意見。
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猜想這一日是
不為世俗而思慮，定睛在神的日子。
才不會一邊想生活，又一邊崇拜什麼的
由 Aco 於 2008年5月17日 上午 2:21 張貼在 和平教會 晶晶目甦
猜想這一日是
不為世俗而思慮，定睛在神的日子。
才不會一邊想生活，又一邊崇拜什麼的
由 Aco 於 2008年5月17日 上午 2:21 張貼在 和平教會 晶晶目甦
[草戊尚土靈修俱樂部] 三年讀經默想與題目 (草戊尚土) 080522
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經文: 智慧人豈可用虛空的知識回答，用東風充滿肚腹呢？
默想: 求神指教我避免賣弄虛空的哲學爭辯，讓我所學習的能夠對於實際生活上有所助益。
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由 草戊尚土 於 5/17/2008 02:13:00 上午 張貼在 草戊尚土靈修俱樂部
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